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I cut her out of my life, and my sister ended up having to deal with the same stuff. My sister went into labour and suddenly my mother had Awesome Santa Claus Penguin Papa Christmas Ugly Party Holiday sweater. I hope you’ll read into some articles about mothers with BPD and Narcissism, see if anything rings true for you. If it does, there are some amazing resources out there. I am sorry you have had to be the parent to your parent. It’s not OK, regardless of the circumstances. It is only a taboo to say so